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My 25 year old sis, Dee, is a "not-quite-reformed" drug addict who is living in an apartment paid for completely by my stepdad, she gets foodstamps and has government-provided healthcare. She is currently married, neither she or her husband work. Her husband has been unemployed for five months, doesn't have a high school diploma or a GED and refuses to get the latter. Dee has a total of five children. Her first two children are autistic and live with her ex-husband, as she abandoned them when they were about 3 and 2 years old. Her youngest three children (two 2 year old twin girls and a boy that's not even 1 yet) are living with her. She has abused me physically, emotionally, and sexually when I was growing up, so I harbor a lot of anger towards her.

My stepfather, Tom, is... crazy. There's really no other way to put it. He has sexually harassed me when I was growing up, hit me, emotionally abused me, threatened to throw me out on numerous occasions both when young and even now that I'm 20.

I am enrolled for college currently, though Tom is the one who put it on his charge card so I could pay him back for it with the 00 I have in my bank account. I am a 20 year old female who has been put into the mental hospital on two occasions of her own accord, because I could not take the stress provided to me by my stepfather Tom and my sister Dee. I am the proud caretaker, though not owner, of a 1 year old black & tan American Cocker Spaniel named Dakota who has anxiety (she hides from loud noises and other people and pees when frightened). Tom is her legal owner.

I do not have a job, because nobody in my neighborhood is hiring. On top of that, I am extremely discouraged to get a job by Tom, who insists I should focus on school instead and that without an Associate's Degree I won't be able to get a job no matter what I do or what skills I may have. I also do not have a therapist/psychotherapy/psychologist/psychiatrist because the nearest one is in the city, and I do not have a driver's license. I have been diagnosed with multiple things, among them General Anxiety and Schizoaffective Disorder (w/ bipolar).

Recently, my sister discovered that she, her husband, and her three children are being evicted from their apartment due to their subhuman living standards, such as a dirty floor with food glued to the carpets that she lets the kids eat off of, furniture with food glued to it that she lets the kids eat off of, clogged toilet in the bathroom, feces on the walls, bedbugs, shelving units, dirty clothes all over the place, in general, bad things. They have found someone willing to let them rent an apartment from them, but one month's security and one month's rent for the 2 bedroom 1 bathroom is 00.

Tom has recently discovered that he is almost out of money, despite being months away from retirement, because he has been funding everything for Dee and her husband. While I have implored of him and begged him in the past NOT to pay for her because he is running out of money, he insists he is doing it for the sake of her children, and that by paying for her rent, electricity, phonebill, cellphone bill, internet, cable, heat, gas, food, car gas, and car insurance he is ultimately helping her children remain alive, well, and healthy. He told me that it was his money and he could do whatever he wants with it, and if it was my money, he'd keep out of my hair about it.

Then today occured.

Tom: I need you to get 00 from the bank tomorrow.
Me: Why?
Tom: Because I need it.
Me: For?
Tom: Dee.
Me: ... I don't really want to.
Tom: I'm asking this as a favor, please get the money and put it into her bank account.
Me: I really don't want to. It's my money.
Tom: You'll f***ing do it.
Me: What if I say no?
Tom: Are you going to be b**** as always?
Me: I don't want to do it. You asked a favor, and I said no. People can say no to favors, especially when it's about THEIR money!
Tom: Then Dakota has to be gone by the end of the week.
Me: You're going to endanger another being's life because I don't want to give my sister 00.
Tom: I'm not endangering her life. If you don't do it, she'll go to the pound.
Me: Where dogs with anxiety don't get adopted and after three days are put to sleep.
Tom: It's not my fault, it's yours.
Me: Look, are you really that desperate? I don't want to give Dorothy my money.
Tom: Are you that heartless and selfish? You really lack any form of altruism, don't you?
Me: Look, I'm sorry, but it's my money, I'm down to about 00, I don't want to give up 00 for her especially if you're going to throw me out.
Tom: I'm writing you out of my will.
Me: Fine, I don't care.
Tom: I'll give every cent to Dorothy.
Me: Go ahead, I don't care.
Tom: You will care. You'll be angry.
Me: I learne
Me: I learned not to trust any gifts you propose you may give me in the future."

Tom: You'll give her the fucking money and put it in her bank account tomorrow! Don't you care about her kids!?

Me: Yes, I do care about her kids. But she doesn't care about them enough to save up money for them, to provide them with a stable life, that isn't my fault, and I'm not giving money for it.

Then he went towards me with his hand out like he was going to choke me. And he stopped himself.

Tom: I'm going for a walk. When I get back, you better have changed your mind.

Then he went for a walk. He came back.

Tom: So are you going to help?
Me: I'll give you the 2400, but I'm not putting it in her bank account.
Tom: If you do that I'll have to take off another day from work and miss a funeral.
Me: I'll hand you the 2400, but that's it.
Tom: Then all the things I said still stand true. Dakota has to be out of my house by the end of the week and I'm going to unenroll you from college.
What, in your opinion, should I do? I don't feel like I should give the money, personally, because that would be enabling Dee's lifestyle, among other things.

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I have a hunter green couch black coffee and end tables and entertainment center
Hunter green valance and black blinds

My bedroom
Is black firnature with stainless steal knobs. I was going to wrap my box spring in red and put black sheets on my bed! I was going to look for either a black and red comforter or black and grey. But I can go with a different color If anyone has any good ideas.
If you can maybe provide links that would be great.

Also my living room leads to up stairs what should I do carry the living room color into the up stairs and the hallway up stairs? Or can I go with a different color that would look good off the living room?

Bathroom

White cabnets
A greenish blue counter top
Med brown tile in the shower and beige tile on the floor.
I also have 3 stained med brown wood pieces in the bathroom for shelving.

If you can provide links to the colors that would be great

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Dear Diary,
Today is the first day I have decided to write in this. It's my first day in L.A.
Its big, and noisy. My school starts tomorrow, I'm kinda nervous. I don’t even know what I’m gonna wear yet. But I have a pretty good idea. I’m gonna wear my high-top converse with my Elmo shirt
I wonder if there will be any cute boys at my new school. It's been kinda awkward with dad and all. I haven't seen him in 3-4 years. Well its 11:00 better go to sleep. Night.

First day of school. I wake up and step into the shower, the warm water hits my back and I twitch having to go from cold to warm. My eyes not even open. I could tell today was gonna be hard. I quickly rinse off and step out of the shower. One problem though. No towel. I moan, I run into the guest bedroom’s closet (aka my closet) and grab a soft pink towel. I wrap myself then sprawl out on the bed. I day dream about how I might become popular and famous at my school. I can see it now. Talia Rosilia is most likely to win a Grammy. I grin. My dad calls for me, I scurry down stairs grabbing my lunch and back pack. My dad goes to hug me but I just turn away and run to my bus. “Bye!” I yell to him. The yellow metal doors spring open allowing me to step inside the bus. It smells. I look around and find a seat. “Is this seat open?” I ask the girl. No reply. I ask again. No reply. “Hello, excuse me is this seat op-.” But before I could finish my sentence she stood up looked me straight in the eyes and said, “This seat is open, but I just don’t want you sitting next to me.” I felt tears coming from my eyes. I had to keep them back. I found a seat way in the back. I was uncomfortable being next to a stranger.
We arrived at school. I went to my first period, English. I quickly grabbed my books for that class. Being the Klutz I am I tripped going out of the home room doorway. Everyone laughed. I was embarrassed especially on the first day of school. I wont tell you the rest of the periods simply because they were boring, but I will tell you that all of my teachers are mean. It was lunch. Mmmm what a wonderful time. But of course no one wanted to sit by me. I got out my lunch. PB and J with a banana and water. I slowly ate all of the items I had. The bell rang that meant it was time to go home. Oh the best time of the day, I get happy thoughts in my head and giggle, I was acting like an idiot. I got ready to go when I noticed that I had toilet paper stuck to my shoe. I was walking down the stairs trying to get it off and I fell, ON TOP OF SOMEONE. It was terrible. First day of school, worst day of my life.

Dear Diary,
The night after school. It was terrible. I was such a klutz and all of my teachers hate me. No one wants to be my friend. No cute boys that I saw and everyone is mean.
Why did I have to move here with dad. Couldn’t I have stayed with mom? Well all I know is that I’m going to call Mom to tell her to come and pick me up and then I won’t have to live here, haha I’m a genius! I gotta get some sleep, goodnight!

“Bring, bring!!!” My alarm makes that terrible noise right into my ear. “Shut up!” I yell pounding my cold fist onto the alarm. I sit up attempting to open my eyes. I pace over to the bathroom [with my eyes shut] and find myself walking into walls. I finally find the sink and cup my hands and bring up the chilling water to my face. I finally open my eyes, “Wow…” I say to myself. I had the worst hair in the morning.
I take a brush from the shelve and comb away at the knots. “Ouch” I say in my mind about to throw the brush, because I have no patience what so ever. I get my clothes for school and throw them on. I’m wearing a red long sleeve shirt and lime green long shorts with it. I have terrible taste in clothes (at least that’s what I’ve been told). I look at myself in the mirror and moan. “Ahh forget it.” I say grabbing my back pack and dart downstairs. “Did you sleep well?” My father asks me. I nod and grab a mini Orange Juice container. “Well, I hope you have a good day at school.” He says and hands me my lunch. “Thanks…” I say and once again run out to the bus, because my father, well you just cant carry on a conversation with him without it being awkward. I find a seat on the bus without it being a big ordeal. I sit down, by myself and stare out the window and go into a daze. My blue eyes follow the sea of emerald trees. I count them…”1, 2, 3, 4…” Oh crap I lost count. We get to school. I sigh, hating mornings. I took one step, then another, then another, then another.
I make it to the huge building of knowledge.

Thanks and bye! Oh and Im 12 so yeah it probably wont be that good.

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A thousand roses scatter my bathroom floor as I extend my hand,
But there it is right in front of me...no one is there.
I'm not to sure if I should start to breathe or close my eyes,
I guess I will just make amends for just tonight.

My heart you see is sailing out in the ocean of lust,
A forgotten heart that's left upon your shelve collecting dust.
Maybe on Monday when we speak again you will see,
How much that you and your heart mean to me.

But for now I will drink and will my glass up with posion,
A mother's hug still couldn't fix this pain.
Heartache followed by a crack of heart break,
I should have known that you are all the same.

I spread myself open on the 18th floor balcony,
To show you how much you mean to me,
But it always falls short ye I'm running out of space,
I hope you regret the fact that you let our love waste.

It took the death of hope for me to let go,
Well now I'm hoping that you will learn to know,
Love is a game and we both cannot lose,
When are hearts are together, it doesn't matter who else is in the room.

Swing Swing, as the sing set goes by,
A new pair I see staring in each others eyes,
I hope they know that this fuc*in wreck that they see,
Used to be there, swinging on that swing.

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I wanted to get new flooring around the house, and to remodel the kitchen. New floors would be new carpet and tiling in the bathrooms, and then dark wooden floors for the kitchen.

For remodeling the kitchen, I just want to replace the counter-tops with granite ones and get shelving installed as well as new windows.

Does anyone have an estimate of what this would cost on average? And about how long it'd take? I know there are a ton of factors but if it helps I have a small U-shaped kitchen and my house is one floor and is fairly small. Just 3 bedrooms and 2 baths, with a living room and kitchen. No dining room or anything of the sort.

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(My Name, SPELLED WRONG)- Complete the following tasks:

1. Clean bathrooms
2. Replace _______ in all ________.
3. One section at a time, remove all _______ and clean shelving.
4. Seal and polish floor behind the counter.
5. Clearn and organize all of the shelving in the back.

The windows were cleaned this week inside and out so they should be fine.

And that's it, the note in its entirety. Who does she think she is? She also changed EVERYTHING in the store.....to NOT match planorgam. Am I being stupid or do I have a right to be f*****g pissed?!?!!?

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